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A HEARTBROKEN mum who posed for a photo shoot with her baby after she died believes every parent should do the same as they brought her peace.
Laura Winner lost her first daughter, Adaline, to sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS) in December 2015 after putting her down for a nap.
Laura Winner shared this photo with her and her daughter, Adaline, five days after she died
She was just seven weeks old.
The 30-year‑old, from South Dakota, has shared poignant photos taken with her little girl five days after she died as a way of keeping her memory alive.
Laura, who now has another daughter, said some friends and family criticised the photoshoot as “inappropriate” but she believes it is something all grieving parents should do.
“At the time I didn't think there was anything unusual about getting photographs with my daughter after she had passed,” the former nursing student said.
“We had just brought Adaline a gorgeous pink dress the day before she died because we had arranged to get some professional baby photos taken.
“The photo shoot just seemed like the normal thing to do and it was so comforting to be able to hold and be with her again.
“I just sat and held her for hours that day, stroking her hair and talking to her. I didn't want to say goodbye to my baby.”
Laura said the photo was a way for her to keep her daughters memory alive.
“Even now, I can look at those photographs and find peace,” she added.
“Negative feedback about the photos always comes from people who haven't been through that kind of loss.
“You could never understand how it feels until you've been through it.
“Although some might think it is strange, it actually really helps with the grieving process and getting some closure, especially when your child dies so unexpectedly.
“There is such a taboo surrounding death but it's a fact of life and is not something that should be considered shameful or be hidden.
“I am so glad I have these photos because those are the last moments I have with my daughter and I will be able to look back at them forever.”
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https://www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/5345327/heartbroken‑mum‑poses‑for‑photos‑with‑her‑baby‑girl‑days‑after‑she‑died‑from‑cot‑death/
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